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How you can Heal yourself

  Every day be grateful to God as you are his chosen one. Each day a new chance to improvise being the real you.   Learning and adapting within yourself is what one must do which can help in healing yourself in all ways.  Keeping aside a day or few hours for yourself to analyse your unknown achievements that you have accomplished where the world might not know your milestone, but it’s between your self analysis. These changes help you to realise how capable you are and noticing your hidden talents. These changes help  in shaping you into a better individual. At times human beings cannot heal you as they are not fully aware of what you are going through. A human can help you out indirectly where the music therapy can help out immensely.    The songs that you wish to hear and music that blends and melts your situation.  The nature too plays a smooth role in healing you whether you have noticed or not. A moment of silence makes you realise and appreciate ...

True Friendship

 Being a friend to someone is something special and being a true friend is like choosing you for who you are. It's very rare to see such friendship but if you are one among them then you are special. Learning to keep boundaries even when it's your close friend is what we all must look out for. An individual who has got a journey to achieve and live their desire. Never be a barrier but keep supporting your true friends from achieving their dreams. A true friend is who stays by your side even at times when they can't afford but they always find an alternative to make you happy. The sacrifice taken from what you don't have but making it available for your dear one even when you think it isn't possible. This is what makes you stand unique and respected. A pause in between can help you figure where you belong in real life. Appreciate your friends for their achievements and growth where it takes effort to build one's career. Keep your friends and yourself motivated an...

Does Workplace Culture Matter?

 Now I didn't bring a controversy with different culture. It's purely about our behaviour at the workplace. It's often seen that your office mates they might have learnt what is right but in reality it's hard for them to implement. It's the basic manners that is lacking. In simple words what matters to you does not matter to the other.  I came across a situation which could be related to the once who have experienced and are not firm to speak out openly but I'm here to open up what it actually feels like and raising my voice to the once who have felt the same and I hope this doesn't occurs to others in future.  Coming out from the office after the hectic day and you wait for your cab to arrive, the moment you get to see your cab you want to get back home quick where your intention is to reach back home safe.  Unexpectedly you might get to see few unknown faces where you might not be in a situation to mingle with them but as human is a social being you might ...

Reading Vs Travelling

 Have you ever felt you want to read or travel? Or have you felt both? Is it just you and me who felt the same? There are times where I have felt the need to travel in my dreams which is not possible for real. Now let us travel. Travel is the biggest learning I have ever experienced. Carrying a book with a pen is usual nowadays. I do note down what I feel now and if not possible I do jot down what comes within my mind. The travel becomes a new post or a blog that helps me connect with the people around me.  It always interests me to find what makes me interested while I visit a place. It might be something that nobody notices too quickly but I find joy in the little acts. Being a selenophile the travel with the moon and the celestial fills my heart with joy where I enjoy the transitions of day and night. Everyday there is something new even when you travel for a short distance. Explore your interest and find what truly interests you. Reading out your discoveries to the world b...

Are we Valued?

Are we really valued? This is how the inner voice questions us, and we might answer it silently to ourselves but without assurance. Why does it take place? The answer in silence might be not truly being valued. We all have come to this point where we might not speak openly, but we all go silent as to whether you're valued or not. My job gives me bread and butter. This reminds me of how caged our thoughts are. Changing our priority for the living. Never forget your values, even when you're valued or not. Some might not care if they are being valued for where they are, maybe they are unaware they are being used in a wrong way. Take time to think if you're able to balance both work and life; if not, in my opinion, we may or may not be valued or you're not feeling like you belong. There might be times when you fear, What would others think of me if I speak these out openly?' The fear of being judged or the feeling of losing them when they realise it isn't matchin...

What do you Remember?

 It is usually asked to forget about the past and think about the future. This is absolutely true but isn't it the past we remember? It's from the past we learn, think and live. When you have been in Institutions what you learn in the previous grades might be the continuation or when you learn a language or calculations etc you are either asked to by heart the following or you got to somehow learn inorder to apply those in practicality. The basic alphabets and numericals that you learn from there is something you could never forget. And what if I say those are past and I got to forget and move forward in the future? These arguments could end up in fight, silence or just skipping or being ignored. Wouldn't this cause a person to not stop thinking about what got ruined in their life? And like a wound you might start to hate them as there is no answer for your question but you are being led down by them. Here's where you got to correct. Never be egoistic to give an answer ...

The Game Changers of Life

 Have you ever come across a point where you have thought is it worth living? What is the purpose of life? If yes you have had game changers in your life, if not then you would have been a game changer in others lives. Competing yourself in life is one best way of changing your life. There won't be anyone other than yourself who have gained life experiences that help you be the change in life. With your experience and trials in life you keep moving forward where unexpectedly you meet many people along the way, inspire your life to another which brings them relief and life where the cycle repeats. This cycle brings forth the title "The game changers of life". Living your life might not be easy but the unexpected game changers can lit you up making ease in your decisions in life. Never miss out to be one among those. Be the game changers where there is purpose and worth living the life!