What do you Remember?

 It is usually asked to forget about the past and think about the future. This is absolutely true but isn't it the past we remember? It's from the past we learn, think and live.


When you have been in Institutions what you learn in the previous grades might be the continuation or when you learn a language or calculations etc you are either asked to by heart the following or you got to somehow learn inorder to apply those in practicality. The basic alphabets and numericals that you learn from there is something you could never forget. And what if I say those are past and I got to forget and move forward in the future? These arguments could end up in fight, silence or just skipping or being ignored. Wouldn't this cause a person to not stop thinking about what got ruined in their life? And like a wound you might start to hate them as there is no answer for your question but you are being led down by them.


Here's where you got to correct. Never be egoistic to give an answer even when you don't know how to guide them. Humans do make mistake but we tend not to correct those mistakes where we repeat. A person will respect once you admit if you are wrong or you got to learn more about it to bring clarity. 


Taking you to another context, isn't memories the past that you wish to go back as they bring happiness? There might be bad memories where you don't want to imagine but there would be instances where those hit back. Traumatised for a while and we would distract to get rid of it and we move on.


In simple words we do remember our past, the moment in the past we wish to relive and the ones we wish that could have vanished like dementia and alzheimers.


Try not to dig one's past purposely by insulting and hurting them instead approach to them in a good way. 

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